Rape Culture

[Skyway]

[Lemmy]

And I was at a party in the woods one night when I was a teenager and a girlfriend of mine most certainly got raped and she was deathly afraid of her parents finding out.

She never reported it. I still remember that night. And I still remember who did it to her, more than 25 years ago.

Popeye did it didn't he?

[Lawsy]

And I was at a party in the woods one night when I was a teenager and a girlfriend of mine most certainly got raped and she was deathly afraid of her parents finding out.

She never reported it. I still remember that night. And I still remember who did it to her, more than 25 years ago.

My other roommate had been gang raped when she was 15 as part of some gang initiation in southside chicago.
I didnt meet her until she was in her 20's but it still fucks with her head to this day (we're in our 30's now). She went to one counseling session for it b/c
she couldnt bear to talk about it.

[Chriza]

My other roommate had been gang raped when she was 15 as part of some gang initiation in southside chicago.
I didnt meet her until she was in her 20's but it still fucks with her head to this day (we're in our 30's now). She went to one counseling session for it b/c
she couldnt bear to talk about it.

[FlaFlaFlunkie]

Popeye did it didn't he?

nah, some dick with whom I played soccer when I was 10 or 11.

[Lawsy]

that shit aint funny!

[fletchman71]

Why don't you post some sources proving this wrong or showing the real stats? Should be pretty easy to do if it is truly propaganda.

Typical libtard response putting the onus on me to disprove the so-called statistics.

[Lawsy]

nah, some dick with whom I played soccer when I was 10 or 11.

you should have kicked his ass.

[FlaFlaFlunkie]

My other roommate had been gang raped when she was 15 as part of some gang initiation in southside chicago.
I didnt meet her until she was in her 20's but it still fucks with her head to this day (we're in our 30's now). She went to one counseling session for it b/c
she couldnt bear to talk about it.

Yeah, well that's not something you lead with in your first session in therapy. You gotta wait until you feel comfortable (safe, that is) with the therapist before you open up.

If you still talk to her, tell her that. When she's ready, she'll open up about it, but guaranteed? That shit has fucked with her head in ways she's not even aware. Talking about seemingly unrelated stuff might make her aware of that.

[FlaFlaFlunkie]

you should have kicked his ass.

She (my friend) begged us, sobbing (and bleeding, by the way) not to.

We (me and two of my friends) never spoke of that night again.

I was 15 or 16 and stupid.

[Lawsy]

Yeah, well that's not something you lead with in your first session in therapy. You gotta wait until you feel comfortable (safe, that is) with the therapist before you open up.

If you still talk to her, tell her that. When she's ready, she'll open up about it, but guaranteed? That shit has fucked with her head in ways she's not even aware. Talking about seemingly unrelated stuff might make her aware of that.

I have. Many, many times. My uncle is a psychologist and I've offered for her to take phone conferences with him.
She just wants to forget it happened b/c "it was so long ago."
thing is, she can't have sex without crying at the end of it. I cant imagine how that would make a guy feel.

[Chriza]

thing is, she can't have sex without crying at the end of it. I cant imagine how that would make a guy feel.

You get used to it

[bobtraw]

Yeah, well that's not something you lead with in your first session in therapy. You gotta wait until you feel comfortable (safe, that is) with the therapist before you open up.

If you still talk to her, tell her that. When she's ready, she'll open up about it, but guaranteed? That shit has fucked with her head in ways she's not even aware. Talking about seemingly unrelated stuff might make her aware of that.

Everyone who knows me personally knows that I go by my middle name and I didn't even let my counselor know that until like a month into therapy.

[Lawsy]

You get used to it

[FlaFlaFlunkie]

I have. Many, many times. My uncle is a psychologist and I've offered for her to take phone conferences with him.
She just wants to forget it happened b/c "it was so long ago."
thing is, she can't have sex without crying at the end of it. I cant imagine how that would make a guy feel.

It's probably not just sex. Anytime she's walking through a parking lot at night, she probably breaks into a sweat.

Anytime she's alone anywhere, she probably freaks out.

[bobtraw]

It's probably not just sex. Anytime she's walking through a parking lot at night, she probably breaks into a sweat.

Anytime she's alone anywhere, she probably freaks out.

This thread is hitting way too close to home now.

[harlock]

Typical libtard response putting the onus on me to disprove the so-called statistics.

Riotgrip is not a liberal

[Gomez]

last night I raped my right hand
but it didn't press charges

[Lemmy]

I always figured broads cried after sex with me due to disappointment and self loathing.

[Johnnykstaint]

And I was at a party in the woods one night when I was a teenager and a girlfriend of mine most certainly got raped and she was deathly afraid of her parents finding out.

She never reported it. I still remember that night. And I still remember who did it to her, more than 25 years ago.

How was she dressed and how hard did she fight back?