I know very little about the Catholic church but I agree with you on allowing marriage. I was just reading something about Episcopalian priest leaving and becoming priest in the Catholic church because the Epicoplaian church is too liberal . If they are married that is okay.
That's why it's so ridiculous. To try and bring more English back to the Church, they created a special rite for them as well. It makes absolutely no sense outside of the fact that so many of the cardinals and bishops are stuck in their ways.