I mean sex.....? It's such a distortion of the word. It's more about degradation I think
But some people get off on degradation
Bro and his dildos, Dave and his thongs come to mind. Is that rape?
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I imagine its more of a power/domination thing, with humiliation added to it. A man has to be seriously twisted to even consider it.
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I have some freakish rape fantasies, and for me - it's ALWAYS about losing control. I spend so much of my life in control - that to lose it is sexually stimulating.
It's never "real rape", in my fantasies though, 'cause I never get hurt badly in them. I can take a good punch or 2, but after that, it's just about the man controlling the situation.![]()
i totally agree that a man -- or anyone -- has to be seriously fucked up to even consider actually doing it. rape fantasies are actually fairly common among women. but if it is just power/domination, why sex? why not something else? isn't there a horniness component to it?
that's totally what i just posted about! lot's a women have those fantasies, but they don't actually want to be raped.
is it possible that the people who have defined what a rapist's motives are are women, and they look at rape through their lens rather than through a male lens? i think if you look at rape through a male lens it is more about sex than power or control or violence. but maybe that's because i'm not a rapist an i think of it through a sex lens.
I think it depends on the rapist. In my own experience it was about sex, however he wasn't a serial rapist. I think serial rapists have a different motivator.
By serial rapist I mean someone who does it more than once - a spouse could even be a serial rapist.
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