Have some courtesy about your death, please.

**Slippy** · 01-01-2013, 07:51 PM

Who fucking ups and dies on New Year's day? Why don't you kill kittens on Christmas and hang puppies at Easter while you're at it, you inconsiderate bastard?

**Bro** · 01-01-2013, 07:52 PM

Yeah.

**Ridic Too** · 01-01-2013, 07:52 PM

Sorry for your loss, Slippy.

**Slippy** · 01-01-2013, 07:58 PM

Originally Posted by Ridic Too

Sorry for your loss, Slippy.

It wasn't actually mine. It was my BFF's dad. Today. I've posted about this before - he was given 4 - 6 months. Opted to kick out today.

I want so badly to help her somehow, but there isn't a thing I can do, except imagine how awful it is to lose your dadI

I feel sick to my stomach for her. Now, New Year's day is ruined for her whole family, for forever. He shoulda held out another day or so, just to be polite.

**Doctor Ivan** · 01-01-2013, 08:00 PM

Originally Posted by Slippy

It wasn't actually mine. It was my BFF's dad. Today. I've posted about this before - he was given 4 - 6 months. Opted to kick out today.

I want so badly to help her somehow, but there isn't a thing I can do, except imagine how awful it is to lose your dadI

I feel sick to my stomach for her. Now, New Year's day is ruined for her whole family, for forever. He shoulda held out another day or so, just to be polite.

For some reason I don't think it was at all his idea.
Life is a cruel master.... Death is the final blow.

Give your friend many hugs and listen... its all you can do.

**Ridic Too** · 01-01-2013, 08:03 PM

Originally Posted by Slippy

It wasn't actually mine. It was my BFF's dad. Today. I've posted about this before - he was given 4 - 6 months. Opted to kick out today.

I want so badly to help her somehow, but there isn't a thing I can do, except imagine how awful it is to lose your dadI

I feel sick to my stomach for her. Now, New Year's day is ruined for her whole family, for forever. He shoulda held out another day or so, just to be polite.

Whether it was today or tomorrow the pain would be the same. I hate death. I am sorry for you and your friend.

**Mlaw** · 01-01-2013, 08:06 PM

you don't need a date on a calendar to feel a loss. I miss my mother and brother the same on their birthdays, the day they died and on any generic Monday.

**Slippy** · 01-01-2013, 08:37 PM

Originally Posted by Mlaw

you don't need a date on a calendar to feel a loss. I miss my mother and brother the same on their birthdays, the day they died and on any generic Monday.

Ohhhh, I hear you Mlaw. I really do. And I can't imagine the loss. It's not even my loss right now, and it's slapping me in the gut.

I'm sorry for yours.

**Nantrax** · 01-01-2013, 08:59 PM

Originally Posted by Mlaw

you don't need a date on a calendar to feel a loss. I miss my mother and brother the same on their birthdays, the day they died and on any generic Monday.

My mom died 8 days after her birthday so it's like having a 2 for 1 special.

The other thing, we love to go camping to a place on Lake Ontario. My parents would go there also, this is where my mom became ill (to learn she had cancer, dead 2 3/4 months later). To this day I keep asking my father which campground they were staying at. I just want to imagine probably her last real happy moments were getting sent to the hospital and spending most of her time there, with a few rare home visits. My can't remember the campground's name.

He also hasn't returned there since it went down. He told me recently he might try again next summer, to try and move on a bit. I'll ask him if he wants me to come along.

The really "i'll break your heart moment" is this. My mom had come home for a few days, I guess to try and having a normal life. One night my mom asked my dad if he wanted to cuddle in bed. She wanted to be cuddled because it had been a while. My dad said no, only because he knew she was fragile and did not want to hurt her while cuddling. The next day was at the hospital and she never returned home.....

When my dad shared that story, I felt so sad for him. Trust me, if he could have gone back in time he would have done it to change his answer to yes.

Damnit i'm all emotional now........

Leaving this thread to avoid more weak moments.

**dinkus mayhem** · 01-01-2013, 08:33 PM

Originally Posted by Slippy

It wasn't actually mine. It was my BFF's dad. Today. I've posted about this before - he was given 4 - 6 months. Opted to kick out today.

I want so badly to help her somehow, but there isn't a thing I can do, except imagine how awful it is to lose your dadI

I feel sick to my stomach for her. Now, New Year's day is ruined for her whole family, for forever. He shoulda held out another day or so, just to be polite.

that sucks. but i don't think it has to be ruined forever. it all depends on how you frame it. it can be a great memorial dy for her father's memory down the road. every new year comes with a reminder of her dad and all he meant to her. sounds kind of nice...down the road. for now it sucks ag's balls.

**tomtom** · 01-01-2013, 08:40 PM

Originally Posted by Slippy

It wasn't actually mine. It was my BFF's dad. Today. I've posted about this before - he was given 4 - 6 months. Opted to kick out today.

I want so badly to help her somehow, but there isn't a thing I can do, except imagine how awful it is to lose your dadI

I feel sick to my stomach for her. Now, New Year's day is ruined for her whole family, for forever. He shoulda held out another day or so, just to be polite.

You should probably surprise her with a wet sloppy kiss. Think how much it will mean to her that you care enough to get her father off her mind if only for a second.

**Charon** · 01-01-2013, 07:53 PM

This rudeness will not be tolerated.

**Satori Brah** · 01-01-2013, 07:53 PM

oh fer crisssakes

**Gwarn1** · 01-01-2013, 07:53 PM

Originally Posted by Slippy

Who fucking ups and dies on New Year's day? Why don't you kill kittens on Christmas and hang puppies at Easter while you're at it, you inconsiderate bastard?

I was about to say that

**TonyJax** · 01-01-2013, 07:54 PM

Sometime I really dont get wtf is going on here.

**Mlaw** · 01-01-2013, 07:54 PM

you'll never forget the anniversary, there's that

**BaddFunn** · 01-01-2013, 07:56 PM

Happy New Year, Slippy!

**Slippy** · 01-01-2013, 08:01 PM

Originally Posted by BaddFunn

Happy New Year, Slippy!

Back atcha BF! Give Benham a pinch on the ass for me please.

**BaddFunn** · 01-01-2013, 08:01 PM

yeah, dying on a holiday is just selfish and rude

**Slippy** · 01-01-2013, 08:04 PM

Originally Posted by Doctor Ivan

For some reason I don't think it was at all his idea.
Life is a cruel master.... Death is the final blow.

Give your friend many hugs and listen... its all you can do.

Kinda was. He could've opted for chemo and shit, that would've dragged his last days out longer. I actually don't blame him for not making that choice.

Originally Posted by BaddFunn

yeah, dying on a holiday is just selfish and rude

Right? Rude.